Types of Virginity.



                Types of Virginity.
i. Primary virginity:
This is also known as physical or natural
virginity. Here the person has never had sex. In
women, the visible evidence of this type of...
virginity is the bleeding that occurs during first
intercourse, though not in all cases because sex
is not the only way through which a woman’s
hymen is broken. It is actually the breaking of
this hymen at first intercourse that causes the
bleeding.
If a woman, therefore, does not bleed at her
first intercourse, it does not necessarily mean
that she is not a virgin. A girl’s hymen,
according to Bruce and Carol Britten
(Answer .for your marriage, 2001) may break
without sex during school sports, or when she
uses menstrual tampon (a French word for an
absorbent plug of cotton wool inserted into the
vagina during menstruation). In fact some girls
are said to be born without hymen.
ii. Secondary Virginity: -
Secondary virginity otherwise known as moral
virginity is different from primary virginity in
the sense that physically the person is not a
virgin because he or she has had sex at least
once, either freely by choice or forcefully
through sexual abuse.
If the person decides to say no to premarital
sex and maintains it after the loss of his or her
virginity, he or she embraces secondary
virginity. This type of virginity is also known
as spiritual virginity. ‘It depicts,’ in the words
of Kenneth Onyeme, ‘a repentant and purified
person’....
**My Advice**
[Its better for you (ladies) not to lie to your
partners in other to drag him to the alter with
"No marriage no Sex" if you are not a virgin so
that a happy relationship won't turn out to be
an unhappy marriage.
Let him know the truth, he will stay if he truly
love you but it might hurt if he finds out later.
Its not virginity that men marry but character]

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